have you ever wanted so so much for someone to see your side of a situation? for someone to just understand where you are coming from, how you are feeling? have you ever felt like no matter what you do, or how much you try to explain something, it just does not work? it's as if you are talking to a wall? they just refuse to see, to understand?
what do you do? do you keep on trying to explain, hoping that one day, maybe one day, the blinds will come off and they'll get it? they'll get why you say what you say and do what you do and feel how you feel? or do you accept that this is how they see things and just let it go?
what if, and this is important, what if you are afraid that this person, your friend, is harming himself/herself? what if you are worried about them and you think that maybe they are blind to what is truly good? do you just close your mouth and let them do what they want (i mean, who is to say that YOU even know what is truly good - maybe you are the one who is blind here)? or do you still keep on trying to convince them of what you know to be good? what if you're afraid that saying anything will harm your relationship with them (no one likes to hear an opposition to their beliefs)? should you sacrifice their good for the sake of the friendship and just agree with everything they say? or no, should you try to convince your friend when you're afraid they are making a mistake?
it's so difficult to know, you know?

i think i'll just ferme ma bouche from now on...